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   %TRUST COOPERATION AFFIRMATIONS WORDS DEEDS LOVE+021018
%PROMISES PROTESTATION BALANCE CIVILITY COMMITMENTS+021018
%MUTUALITY HOSPITALITY DOMINATION CONTROL OBEDIENCE+021018
 %COHERENT COMPLEMENTARY PERFECTION PURITY MISTAKES+021018
  %ELIMINATION FLAWS ERRORS FAILURES DEVILS DISEASE 021018
                                                          
     True trust and cooperation depend upon:              
                                                          
     1.  Affirmations in word and deed;  more so than upon
negations of any kind.                                    
                                                          
     2.  Coherence  between affirmations in word and deed;
more so than upon extremity of affirmations in either word
or deed.                                                  
                                                          
     3.  Demonstrations  of  being long-term  trust-worthy
and cooperative ---  more so than upon short-term promises
and/or protestations.                                     
                                                          
     4.    Balance   and civility;   more  so  than   upon
isolated major commitments,   sacrifices and  conformities
to any few formal standards.                              
                                                          
     5.  Gracious mutuality and hospitality;  more so than
upon outstanding domination, controls and obedience.      
                                                          
     6.  Humble  commitments  to  and  demonstrations   of
beliefs  in coherent sets of complementary ideals, values,
principles  and  policies;  more so than upon  outstanding
commitments   to and demonstrations of beliefs  in  purity
and perfection via the elimination of all flaws,  mistakes
and imperfections.                                        
                                                          
     7.  Humble  commitments  to  and  demonstrations   of
personal and communal integrities;  more so  than upon the
ostentatious   worship   of  (and/or  offering  of   major
sacrifices  to)  isolated ideals,  values,  leaders and/or
groups.                                                   
                                                          
     8.  Flexibility  and  robustness in  approaching  new
opportunities  and challenges;  more so that upon  eternal
rigidity   in  sticking  to  a formal  program  or  a  set
of conformal beliefs, practices and rituals.              
                                                          
     9.  Resolving conflicts between/among ideals, values,
principles,  policies  and their personal incarnations ---
through  balanced listening,  dialogue,   and  cooperative
efforts; more so than through the unilateral use of force,
coercion,  intimidation, threats, terrorism,  violence and
wars.                                                     
                                                          
    10.  Working for the distribution of the fruits of our
labors  in  ways which promote both personal and  communal
integrities;   more so than in ways which concentrate  the
fruits  into the hands of the most dominant,  egotistical,
self-centered and narcissistic leaders.                   
                                                          
    11.  Intentionally  neglecting some traditional and/or
required    disintegrative-activities    (contentiousness,
domination,  controls, judgementalism, etc.) ---  in favor
of   some   non-traditional  and/or  informal   activities
(balanced listening, dialogue, cooperative efforts, etc.).
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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