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%DISCERNMENT REAL DISINTEGRATIONS THREATS HARM SINS+021017
%SIGNS SYMBOLS POINTER PERSONAL COMMUNAL APPEARANCE+021017
  %MURDER VIOLENCE ABUSE SEDUCTION DECEPTION SEXUAL+021017
  %CRIME SPIRITUAL FACTUAL TRUTH INTIMACY RELIGIOUS+021017
 %PREMEDITATION INTENTIONAL CRIMINAL NEGLIGENCE GOD+021017
  %ACCIDENT NATURAL INITIATIVE NATURE PHYSICAL LAWS 021017
                                                          
    What are some of the signs of real-disintegrations-and
real-threats-of-real-disintegrations-of      personal-and-
communal-integrities  ---   as  distinguished  from  mere-
appearances-thereof?      Real-disintegrations     include
intentional/premeditated:                                 
                                                          
     1.  Murder.                                          
     2.  Physical violence/abuse/seduction/deception.     
     3.  Psychological violence/abuse/seduction/deception.
     4.  Sexual violence/abuse/seduction/deception.       
     5.  Economic violence/abuse/seduction/deception.     
     6.  Spiritual violence/abuse/seduction/deception.    
     7.  Factual violence/abuse/seduction/deception.      
     8.  Intimacy violence/abuse/seduction/deception.     
     9.  Religious violence/abuse/seduction/deception.    
                                                          
     More  difficult  to  discern reliably  are  occasions
where  there was no provable intent or  premeditation  ---
but   through  criminal  negligence   real-disintegrations
occurred;  e.g.,  homicides  which flow from the  abuse of
alcohol  and  other drugs ---  and "accidents"  which flow
from negligence of proper safety considerations.          
                                                          
     Real-threats   include    those   threats that   are:
overt/intentional, covert/tacit,  accidental/negligent and
those  threats  within  which  humans play  no  initiating
roles.   Real-threats are more difficult to prove than are
actual disintegrations ---   because  threats often entail
questions about  human  motivations  which  are not always
easy  to  discern reliably in the  presence  of collusions
and/or intentional deceptive behaviors.   Complications in
fair  and  just  discernment are  introduced  by  blamers,
guilters,  shamers, projectionists, dominators,  etc.  ---
who    obscure   real   relationships   with    misleading
representations of the real relationships.                
                                                          
     The  presence  of  collusive  games  of  mutual  self
deception, addicts, codependent supporters, and dominating
supporters of "The Domination System" make it difficult to
discern   the   difference  between  REAL   disintegrative
behaviors,  REAL THREATS of  disintegrative behaviors  and
the FALSE PROJECTIONS of blame,  shame,  guilt, fault upon
poor and vulnerable people ---  by domineering people  who
do  not respect honesty,  gentleness,  modesty,  humility,
personal  integrity or communal integrity as essential  to
meaningful living.                                        
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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