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  %COMPROMISED INTEGRITIES MISREPRESENT MOTIVATIONS+020810
%GOALS IDEALS VALUES HOPES ASPIRATION FEARS CONCERN+020810
 %BEHAVE INCONSISTENT AFFIRMATIONS MOTIVATIONS SINS+020810
   %DEMAND COMMAND OURSELVES SPECIAL RIGHTS BURDENS+020810
 %CARRY FALL LETTING GO BENEFITS FRUITS SWEET OTHER+020810
  %HUMANE DIFFERENCES MICRO-MANAGE DOMINATE CONTROL 020810
                                                          
     The integrities of  our  efforts and communities  are
compromised whenever we:                                  
                                                          
     1.  Misrepresent our:  motivations,  goals,   ideals,
values, hopes, aspirations, fears, concerns, etc.         
                                                          
     2.  Behave  in ways which are inconsistent  with  our
declared:   motivations,  goals,   ideals,  values, hopes,
aspirations,  fears, concerns, etc.  ---  and pretend that
such inconsistencies do not exist.                        
                                                          
     3.  Demand   for   ourselves   special   rights   and
privileges which we refuse to allow other people to enjoy.
                                                          
     4.  Place  upon other people burdens which we  demand
that  they carry for our benefit ---  even as we refuse to
carry our share of such burdens;   or refuse to let others
have their share of the fruits of burden carrying work.   
                                                          
     5.  Impose multiple-constraints upon other people  to
the  point  that they have  no  degrees-of-freedom  within
which  to:    be-creative,   take-initiatives,    express-
individual-differences or be-authentic.                   
                                                          
     6.  Micro-manage other people's lives in our  efforts
to be: dominant and in-control.                           
                                                          
     7.   Refuse  to accept or respect humane  differences
because   we  want to be dominant,  in-control and free of
embarrassments and free of our fears-of-embarrassments.   
                                                          
     Good laws,  rules,  regulations and commandments have
been, and can be, abused by domineering people who are not
truly  committed  to promoting both personal and  communal
kinds  of   integrities.     We  need  to  take   note  of
domineering people's attitudes,  assumption,  motivations,
fears, etc.     Formal laws and the  enforcement of formal
laws are not effective  means  by  which  to  mitigate the
disintegrative behaviors of domineering people.   Informal
patterns  of  common  sense  and  communal  consensus  are
essential  to integration  and the protection of both  our
personal  and communal kinds of integrities.              
                                                          
     Beware  of  domineering  people  who  arrogate   unto
themselves duties,  responsibilities and powers to control
other  people's lives unilaterally ---  according to their
own  unilateral  dictates,  rules and  regulations!    Ask
yourself: What are such  people  afraid of?   How are they
trying  to   control  their  own  fears,   anxieties   and
concerns?                                                 
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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