This is http://www.essayz.com/b0207131.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %DISCOUNT COMPLAINTS OBJECTIONS DEMANDS COMMANDS+020713 %PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTION LAW-SUITS COURTS JUDGE+020713 %LEGALISMS JUDGMENTALISM EXCOMMUNICATION JUSTICE+020713 %PRESENCE ABSENCE ALIENATE RECONCILIATION LOVE LAW+020713 %TOLERATE PERFECTIONISM ADDICTION COLLUSION HONESTY+020713 %PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY HEALTH HEALING SERVANT 020713 Upon what legitimate bases may we reasonably DISCOUNT complaints, objections, demands, commandments, prescriptions, proscriptions, law-suits --- by certain persons/groups? We may DISCOUNT them on the basis that they demonstrate traits on the left below; and/or the absence of traits on the right: The presence of: The absence of: ARROGANCE HUMILITY SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS RIGHT-RELATIONSHIPS COERCION GENTLENESS ALIENATION RECONCILIATION VIOLENCE KINDNESS PRETENTIOUSNESS HONESTY IMAGINED-HARM REAL-HARM IMAGINED-THREAT REAL-THREATS SYMBOLIC-OFFENSES REAL-OFFENSES PROJECTED-GUILT AUTHENTIC-GUILT PROJECTED-SHAME AUTHENTIC-SHAME DOMINANCE BALANCE CONTROLS COOPERATION DEMANDS-FOR-CONFORMITY TOLERANCE DEMANDS-FOR-SUBMISSION GENEROSITY EXCOMMUNICATIONS RECONCILIATION DIS-EASE HEALING MENTAL-ILLNESS SHALOM SELFISHNESS GENEROSITY THREATS COORDINATION FRAGMENTATION INTEGRATION PREJUDICE MUTUALITY IGNORANCE LEARNING COLLUSIONS OPENNESS FORMALITIES AUTHENTICITY TECHNOLOGIES GRACE CONTENTIOUSNESS CIVILITY COMPUTATIONS HOSPITALITY CORRUPTION INTEGRITY POWER-CONCENTRATION POWER-SHARING WEALTH-CONCENTRATION WEALTH-SHARING INVULNERABILITY VULNERABILITY DEFENSIVENESS INTIMACY ANIMOSITY FRIENDSHIP SUSPICION TRUST PERFECTIONISM TOLERANCE Above, many contrasts may be noted horizontally across and diagonally across --- between items on the right and left. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================