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 %ACCOUNTABLE RELATIONSHIPS CONSEQUENCES OPENLY SIN+020609
 %HONESTLY ENTER APPROACH GRACIOUSLY PEACEFULLY GOD 020609
                                                          
     It  is  not  helpful to be preoccupied  with  holding
people   accountable   for   the   consequences   of   the
RELATIONSHIPS   into  which  they   openly,     graciously
and honestly enter.  To attempt to hold people accountable
for  such   "consequences"    under  such    circumstances
will encourage people to:                                 
                                                          
     1.  Try to  dominate  and  be  in  control  of  their
relationships  ---    which  will  lead  to  personal  and
communal disintegrations.                                 
                                                          
     2.  Try to avoid involvements in relationships  which
they cannot dominate and/or control --- which will lead to
personal, and communal  estrangements  and alienations ---
and so to disintegrations.                                
                                                          
     3.  Be  pretentious/dishonest  about  their relation-
ships and/or lack of  open/honest/intimate   relationships
--- in attempts to appear to be technically "good".       
                                                          
     4.  Be arrogant and defensive about themselves and/or
their relationships.                                      
                                                          
     5.  Try   to  unilaterally  plan  and  determine  the
outcomes/consequences  of their relationships;  which will
lead to the above tragic consequences.                    
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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