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    %COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION PERSONAL+020506
  %RELATIONSHIPS CONFLICTS COERCION DOMINATION EVIL+020506
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     Two common collusive games of mutual self deception  
which human being play are focused upon "affirming" the   
following two "truths":                                   
                                                          
     1.  We as individuals are NOT CHANGED by the         
relationships within which we are participants in various 
ways.                                                     
                                                          
     2.  Our relationships are NOT CHANGING due to the    
ways in which we participate in them.                     
                                                          
     We pretend that we are eternal and that our various  
relationships are eternal.  The dishonesty which is       
inherent in our collusive games mutual self deception make
it impossible for us to deal in well informed ways with   
ourselves, each other, and/or our relationships.  Such    
dishonesty dominates our disintegrating selves, each      
other, and our relationships.                             
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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