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   %FRUSTRATED ANGRY VIOLENCE OPENLY HONESTLY SHARE+020413
 %OWN MEMORIES TRUE INTEGRATIVE TIMES TOGETHER LOVE+020413
  %INTIMATE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS LETTING GO DEFENSE+020413
%HEALTHY GOODNESS ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS EVIL+020413
  %SIN ALIEN WRONG LAWS PROSCRIPTIONS PRESCRIPTIONS+020413
 %BALANCE ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS CIVILITY GRACE WELL 020413
                                                          
      Why  is it that we become so frustrated,  angry     
        and prone to violence --- when we cannot openly   
          and honestly share with each other --- our      
            own memories of our most true/integrative     
              times together --- in cooperative           
                exploration of new kinds of               
                  healthy relationships?                  
                    Because what stops                    
                      us is so wrong?                     
                        So evil &                         
                          alien?                          
                            Sin?                          
                                                          
      What stops us?  Good laws?  Good fears?  God?  Sin? 
        What are the ESSENTIAL FOUNDATIONS of honesty?    
          Of integrity?  Of righteousness? Of Love?       
            Of truly right kinds of relationships?        
              Of mutual respect, honor, support?          
                Of personal/communal integrity?           
                  Of civility & and balance?              
                     Of mutual admiration?                
                       Of communal health?                
                         Of being right?                  
                           Being well?                    
                             Shalom?                      
                              Love?                       
                               sin                        
                                1                         
                                0                         
                                                          
      We cannot enjoy both personal and communal          
        integrity so long as we fail to work together to  
          transcend our EVIL RELATIONSHIPS with ISOLATED  
            "things":                                     
                                                          
                                                          
     PEOPLE             IDEALS          VALUES            
                                                          
     LAWS               COMMANDMENTS    PROSCRIPTIONS     
                                                          
     THEORIES           COSMOLOGIES     MYTHOLOGIES       
                                                          
     COMMUNITIES        CHURCHES        RELIGIONS         
                                                          
     JUDGEMENTS         DEMANDS         EXPECTATIONS      
                                                          
     JUDGES             PARADIGMS       SYSTEMS           
                                                          
     RULERS             DICTATORS       LORDS             
                                                          
     BULLIES            RESCUERS        ADDICTS           
                                                          
     CODEPENDENTS       COLLUDERS       DOMINATORS        
                                                          
     CONCEPTS           CONCEPTIONS     IDOLS             
                                                          
     IDOLATRIES         PRECONCEPTIONS  ASSUMPTIONS       
                                                          
     THEORIES           BELIEFS         DOCTRINES         
                                                          
     CONFESSIONS        TRUTHS          SCRIPTURES        
                                                          
     PRISONS            EXCLUSIVITIES   CLUBS             
                                                          
     GANGS              NEIGHBORHOODS   HOUSES            
                                                          
     COMMUNITIES        MANSIONS        CARS              
                                                          
     SUV's              COMMUTERS       TANKS             
                                                          
     FORTRESSES         DEFENSES        BATTLES           
                                                          
     FEARS              ANXIETIES       RESENTMENTS       
                                                          
     PARADOXES          DOUBTS          SUSPICIONS        
                                                          
     PARTS              ELEMENTS        CELLS             
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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