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%ARTICULATE CLEAR DESCRIPTION DIFFERENCE NEGATIVITY+020221
%ODD EVEN-HANDED PEOPLE APPEARANCES IMPRESSIONS SIN+020221
%FOCUS PRIORITIES RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUAL SUPERIOR+020221
%UNDERMINE SUBVERT RIDICULE DENIAL DERISION REFUSAL+020221
%MOCKERY NEGATIONS ATTACKS TAUNTS REJECTIONS DEVILS 020221
                                                          
     It is often difficult to articulate                  
       clear descriptions of the differences between      
         misleading negativity, on the one-hand, and      
           revealing, open and honest dialogue about      
             misleading negativity, people and relations; 
               on the other-hand.                         
                                                          
     1.  What is ODD is that it is often hard to recognize
           that  EVEN-handed  people  are  abused  by  ODD
             people  who  succeed  in  appearing   to   be
               good-people who seem worthy of             
                 respect, honor & support.                
                                                          
     2.  EVEN-handed people focus upon making AFFIRMATIONS
           which reveal the true nature of RELATIONSHIPS  
             and the consequences which flow from negative
               kinds of RELATIONSHIPS.                    
                                                          
     3.  NEGATIVITY dominates in the RELATIONSHIPS of ODD 
           people who lack integrity and so undermine the 
             integrities of EVEN-handed people and their  
               integrative RELATIONSHIPS.  ODD people live
                 within clouds of: ridicule, denial,      
                   derision, refusals, mockery, negations,
                     taunts, rejections, caricatures,     
                       disaffirmations, attacks, assaults 
                         aggressions, etc.                
                                                          
     4.  AFFIRMATIONS play major roles within the gracious
           RELATIONSHIPS of EVEN-handed people who work to
             facilitate and promote diverse integrative   
               RELATIONSHIPS --- among differing people,  
                 communities and communications --- which 
                   reveal the natural consequences of     
                     various: attitudes, assumptions,     
                       beliefs, convictions, and ways of  
                         approaching each other.          
                                                          
     5.  NEGATIVITY is often be expressed in ways which   
           only appear to be motivated by high ideals,    
             desires, hopes and aspirations --- while in  
               truth the expressions are motivated/guided 
                 by desires to: control, dominate, rule,  
                   command, contain, dictate, order,      
                     mandate, hold, regulate, repress,    
                       and otherwise lord it over others. 
                                                          
     6.  The affirmations of lovers, on the other hand,   
           are: open, honest, balanced, complementary,    
             cooperative, authentic, integrative, kind,   
               gentle, gracious, compassionate,           
                 liberating, empowering, healing,         
                   reconciling, facilitative, and         
                     otherwise in the service of Love.    
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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