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%CHARACTERISTICS COMMON WITHIN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP+020215
   %SHARING SELF OTHER STORIES EXPERIENCES THOUGHTS+020215
 %INTEGRATIVE INTIMATE LOVERS COOPERATION PLEASURES+020215
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     What  are  the  characteristics which are  common  in
relationships which are:                                  
                                                          
     Healthy                      Un-healthy              
     OPEN                         SECRETIVE               
     HONEST                       DECEPTIVE               
     SHARED                       POSSESSIVE              
     MUTUAL                       UNILATERAL              
     GENTLE                       VIOLENT                 
     HEALING                      COERCIVE                
     LIBERATING                   DOMINEERING             
     AUTHENTIC                    COLLUSIVE               
     CREATIVE                     CONFORMAL               
     IMAGINATIVE                  REPRESSIVE              
     GROWING                      CONVENTIONAL            
     INTEGRATIVE                  EXCLUSIVE               
     CIVIL                        OFFENSIVE               
     INTIMATE                     DEFENSIVE               
     RELAXED                      CONTENTIOUS             
                                                          
     Healthy relationships entail the sharing of:         
       visions, dreams, desires, hopes, aspirations,      
         beliefs, convictions, fears, anxieties,          
           benefits, costs, advantages, pleasures, etc.   
                                                          
     Individual people may have accomplished much and be  
       wealthy in terms of money and possessions, but yet 
         be involved in many un-healthy relationships,    
           and not enjoy any healthy relationships.       
                                                          
     Other individuals may have accomplished little of    
       note and have little money or possessions, but yet 
         be involved in many healthy relationships, and   
           not suffer any un-healthy relationships.       
                                                          
     Individual people may be unable to tolerate knowing  
       about healthy people who are involved in many      
         intimate/healthy relationships which are not     
           being unilaterally controlled by any person,   
             group or ideology --- and so try to control  
               such relationships. They try to control the
                 sharing of information about such        
                   non-conventional relationships.        
                                                          
     Other individuals may enjoy knowing about and        
       sharing stories about healthy people who are within
         intimate/healthy relationships which are not     
           being unilaterally controlled by any person,   
             group or ideology --- and so spread knowledge
               about how to facilitate healthy relations  
                 which are mutually satisfying to those   
                   involved directly or indirectly.  They 
                     violate the tacit rules of addicts,  
                       codependent supporters, colluders, 
                         and supporters of diverse forms  
                           of "The Domination System".    
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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