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  %COMPLEMENTARY KINDS PEOPLE INTOLERABLE SUSPICION+020211
  %TRANSCEND SUBVERT DICHOTOMOUS ATTITUDES THINKING+020211
   %LOGIC REASONING PEACEMAKERS DIPLOMATIC CIVILITY+020211
  %CONFLICT RESOLUTION ROOTS INTEGRITY HEALTH CIVIL+020211
  %RIGHTS PRIVACY INTIMACY HEALTHY SEXUALITY LOVERS 020211
                                                          
     Consider the columns of words which appear below.    
                                                          
     Complementary kinds of people are prone to be more   
       tolerant of what words-on-the-left,                
         or words-on-the-right point towards; and         
           intolerant of that to which words on the other 
             side point towards.                          
                                                          
     Such complementary kinds of people often regard      
       each other with suspicion, anxiety and distrust.   
                                                          
     Relatively few people transcend the above            
       kinds of dichotomous: attitudes, thinking, logic   
         reasoning and acting --- as peacemakers and      
           truly diplomatic workers towards the           
             resolution of root conflicts which undermine 
               both personal and communal kinds of        
                 integrity, health and civility.          
                                                          
     DOUBT                       CONFIDENCE               
     DOUBT                       CONVICTION               
     DOUBT                       CERTAINTY                
     UNCERTAINTY                 CERTAINTY                
     HUMILITY                    ARROGANCE                
     HUMILITY                    POWER                    
     PRIVATE                     PUBLIC                   
     PRIVATE                     UNIVERSAL                
     LOCAL                       GLOBAL                   
     PROVINCIAL                  INTERNATIONAL            
     FEW                         MANY                     
     FEW                         ALL                      
     SMALL                       LARGE                    
     LETTING-GO                  CONTROLLING              
     LIBERATION                  DOMINATION               
     SERVANT                     CONTROLLER               
     SERVANT                     LORD/KING                
     COMMON                      SOPHISTICATED            
     SIMPLE                      COMPLEX                  
     SIMPLICITY                  COMPLEXITY               
     UNDERSTANDABLE              COMPLEX                  
     MYSTERIOUS                  PREDICTABLE              
     SACRED                      PROFANE                  
     OBEY                        COMMAND                  
                                                          
     What is important is often an OVERALL-PATTERN        
      which is an essence of a WHOLE-WEB-OF-BEING;        
        healthy/diseased, relaxed/dis-eased,              
          well/sick, whole/fragmented,                    
            integrated/segregated,                        
              secure/defensive,                           
                vulnerable/pretentious,                   
                  gracious/haughty,                       
                    hospitable/antagonistic,              
                      civil/offensive, etc.               
                                                          
     We will do well to seek to discern the               
       OVERALL-PATTERNS in our lives and in the           
         lives of those nearest and dearest to us.        
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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