This is http://www.essayz.com/b0202031.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %CANNOT GIVE SHARE GIFTS OTHERS KNOWLEDGE INTIMATE+020203 %CONTROL UNILATERAL RELATIONSHIPS LETTING GO LOVER+020203 %TRULY OPEN HONEST SAFE HEALTHY FREEDOM LEGITIMATE+020203 %GIFTS ENJOYMENT VULNERABILITY SECURITY DEFENSIVE 020203 We cannot give, share and enjoy with others; what we have never received, known or enjoyed as part of being truly safe and vulnerable. We cannot control and enjoy with others; --- unilateral relationships which we will not let go of, because we think they are ours. We cannot enjoy truly open and honest relationships; which we cannot envision as safe and healthy. We cannot share and enjoy those kinds of freedoms; which we cannot envision as legitimate gifts of Love --- worthy of respect, honor & support. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================