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    %DOMINATION SYSTEM DISHONESTY COLLUSIONS DEVILS+020202
    %DECEPTION MISLEADING APPEARANCES THINGS LOVERS+020202
   %INTEGRATIVE RELATIONSHIPS SEEMLY BEINGS GRANTED+020202
  %CONTROL ABUSE TOOLS COERCIVE VIOLENT NATURAL LAW+020202
  %TRUE ABSOLUTE TRUTH DESCRIPTION PRESCRIPTION GOD+020202
   %RELIGION CHRISTIAN MUSLIM JEW CONFLICT WAR KILL 020202
                                                          
     In communities which are dominated by domineering    
       supporters of "The Domination System" ---          
         THINGS and RELATIONSHIPS are often NOT           
           what they seem to be.  Honesty cannot be       
             taken for granted.  People who seem          
               to be honest, may not be honest, and       
                 people who seem to be dishonest,         
                   may truly be honest and kind.          
                                                          
     Domineering people usually want to be in control     
       and are willing to use dishonesty as a tool ---    
         with which to try to be in control.  Their own   
           being dishonest, deceptive, coercive, etc.     
             is not inconsistent to them --- it is        
               entirely natural and in order for/to them. 
                                                          
     True lovers do not want to be in control, and want   
       to be open and honest with everybody; but they     
         find it difficult to be safely open and honest   
           with domineering people who want desperately   
             to be in control --- so true lovers are      
               often less open, honest, forthcoming ---   
                 than they would like to be --- appearing 
                   to domineering people as passive-      
                     aggressive "resistance workers" who  
                       are not "properly loyal" to the    
                         legitimate domineering leaders;  
                           i.e., as potential traitors    
                             who must be controlled, or   
                               else eliminated.           
                                                          
      It is dangerous for true lovers to be overtly open  
        and honest with domineering powerful leaders;     
          for domineering powerful leaders get upset      
            and threatened by the presence of any healthy 
              people who show signs of wanting to be open 
                and honest with others. Such people are a 
                  threat to the "integrity" of the good & 
                    essential collusions upon which       
                      "The Domination System" and all of  
                        "The Powers That Be" depend.      
                                                          
      Within such contexts as described above, it is      
        natural for people to pretend to be other than    
          what they really are and want to be; in order   
            to survive and to insure the survival of      
              their own kind of good supporters ---       
                of their kind-ways-of-being-true to       
                  themselves and to reliable others of    
                    their-own-kind-of-beings.  Being      
                      clear and explicit is not the       
                        sure way to survive!  Being       
                          deceptive and misleading is     
                            often essential to any kind   
                              of survival.  Beware!       
                                                          
      How then are people of integrity to work for true   
        integrity without provoking unnecessary trouble,  
          contentiousness, conflict, violence, coercion   
            and misunderstanding?  How can they expose    
              and subvert the domineering supporters of   
                "The Domination System"?  They can STUDY- 
                  AND-MODEL the TEACHINGS-AND-LIFE-       
                    STYLES of historic non-violent        
                      leaders like: Jesus, Buddha,        
                        Mohammed, Gandhi, M.L. King,      
                          Nelson Mandela, and Bishop      
                            Tutu;  who have often         
                              been misunderstood by       
                                confused followers ---    
                                  who are often the       
                                    domineering ones      
                                      supporting "The     
                                        Domination        
                                          System" of      
                                            being in      
                                              Control     
                                                and       
                                                  Best;   
                                                   in     
                                                    sin.  
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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