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 %RISKS SHARING EXPERIENCES KNOWLEDGE UNDERSTANDING+010329
   %HEALTHY PLEASURES INTIMACY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS+010329
%VIOLENCE HIDDEN CONVENTION RULES DOMINATION SYSTEM+010329
%COLLUSIVE GAME MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION EMBARRASS SIN+010329
  %SHARING DIALOGUE FORBIDDEN TRUTHS RIGHTS COMMUNE+010329
  %SANCTUARY SAFELY VULNERABLE TOGETHER FRIENDSHIPS 010329
                                                          
     There truly are some  risks  in  sharing experiences,
knowledge and understanding pertaining to the pleasures of
healthy  intimacy and sexual relationships.    Among those
risks are the following:                                  
                                                          
     1.  Sharing which occurs prematurely may lead into an
untimely/imprudent sexual involvement.                    
                                                          
     2.  Sharing may violate the hidden/conventional rules
of "The Domination System" which presumes to be in control
of  all  intimate/sexual  relationships  --- in  order  to
promote  and  maintain  the essential collusive  games  of
mutual  self deception upon which "The Domination  System"
depends.                                                  
                                                          
     3.  Sharing may embarrass and/or threaten those  with
whom the sharing occurs --- and/or those others who become
aware of the sharing.                                     
                                                          
     4.  Sharing  intimate  knowledge  may not be regarded
as  protected communication under constitutional rights of
speech, press,  assembly,  petition, religion, privacy and
redress of grievances.                                    
                                                          
     5.  Sharing  may  not occur within a  true  sanctuary
within which people may know true security in being safely
vulnerable within intimate/sexual relationships which are:
prudent,   wise,   balanced,  open,   honest,   authentic,
graceful, generous and integrative --- in the best senses.
                                                          
     6.  Sharing  may  undermine people's  needs  for  the
affirmations  of  "The Domination System",   and  so  make
people less likely to be compliant towards "The Domination
System"   ---   to the destructive dismay  of  domineering
people.                                                   
                                                          
     7.  Sharing  forbidden truths may be in violation  of
the unwritten rules of "The Domination System" --- leading
to   the  imposition  of  unwritten  punishments  such  as
exclusion,   condemnation  and  excommunication  ---   for
unspecified violations of conformity laws.                
                                                          
     8.  The sharing of intimate knowledge  may cross over
and/or  blur  boundaries of: race,   religion,  education,
wealth, politics,   gender,  and power ---  and so lead to
severe  punishment  by those in charge of  protecting  the
"integrity" of those sacred boundaries.                   
                                                          
     9.  Acknowledging  that  eating of the fruit  of  the
tree  of  the  knowledge of good and  evil  was  forbidden
because such knowledge  leads to exclusive behaviors which
are alienative ---  domineering, arrogant,  self-righteous
and  unbalanced.    Such an acknowlegement is forbidden by
"The Domination System"  --- because it will undermine its
collusive control system.                                 
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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