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  %BEHAVIORAL GUIDELINES COMMANDMENTS RESPECT HONOR+000908
  %COOPERATIVE PEACEMAKER CONFLICT RESOLUTION SHARE+000908
  %SUPPORT MUTUAL ADVANTAGE HONEST ADDICTION HEALTH+000908
  %ABUSE COERCION VIOLENCE DECEPTION COLLUSION SINS+000908
  %TRANSCEND SUBVERT DOMINATION SYSTEMS BALANCE GOD 000908
                                                          
     People   who   demonstrate  honor  and  respect   for
the guidelines given in the numbered list below ---  merit
our respect,   honor  and  support. Such people are likely
to:                                                       
                                                          
     a.  Become peacemakers,                              
     b.  Help people become liberated from conflicts,     
     c.  Facilitate mutual understanding and forgiveness, 
     d.  Promote and facilitate reconciliation/healing,   
     e.  Facilitate cooperations with mutual advantages,  
     f.  Graciously and humbly transcend domination,      
     g.  Help people to be free to be safely vulnerable,  
     h.  Promote/facilitate healthy intimate relations.   
     i.  Do justice, love mercy, & walk humbly with God.  
     j.  Love God and neighbors with personal integrity.  
                                                          
     Consider  the  following  suggestive  guidelines   in
prayerful  mediation.   Seek to discern what is helpful in
them. Ignore what is not helpful in them.                 
                                                          
     1.  Share and honor positive personal affirmations.  
                                                          
     2.  Cooperate   with   each   other   in    mutually-
advantageous conflict-resolution to  make-peace with each-
other.                                                    
                                                          
     3.  Facilitate and promote: open-and-honest-dialogue,
forgiveness,  healthy-personal-relationships, and healing.
                                                          
     4.  Transcend and subvert: abuse, coercion, violence,
deception,   collusions,   addictions,   alienations,  and
domination.                                               
                                                          
     5.  Honor and support healthy personal relationships,
rather than criticize imperfect isolated individuals.     
                                                          
     6.  Regularly  exchange  gifts of the freedom  to  be
safely vulnerable within intimate relationships.          
                                                          
     7.  Describe  and seek to understand conflicts  among
your most respected your ideals,  values,  principles, and
goals.                                                    
                                                          
     8.  In  mutually  balanced  ways  share  your powers,
insights,  knowledge, perceptions, and resources with each
other.                                                    
                                                          
     9.  Seek mutual  advantages  through  inclusions  and
integrations,      rather   than  self  centered  personal
advantages through exclusions and fragmentations.         
                                                          
     10. Seek  security and peace in  gracious cooperative
efforts,     rather    than   in    invulnerability    and
defensive efforts.                                        
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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