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%CORRELATED CHARACTERISTIC SUPPORTER DOMINATION SIN+000416
  %SYSTEM ARROGANCE PRIDE SELF RIGHTEOUS IMPATIENCE+000416
                        %LISTEN GENTLENESS HUMILITY 000416
                                                          
Supporters  of  "The  Domination  System"   manifest  some
personal characteristics --- but rarely manifest contrast-
ing personal characteristics:                             
                                                          
MANIFESTED  CHARACTERISTICS      RARELY MANIFESTING  THESE
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ARROGANCE                       HUMILITY                  
                                                          
OSTENTATIOUS                    SIMPLE                    
                                                          
IMPATIENCE                      PATIENCE                  
                                                          
TELLING                         LISTENING                 
                                                          
ASSERTING                       GIVING                    
                                                          
GIVING-ORDERS                   GIVING-SUPPORT            
                                                          
CRITICIZING                     SYMPATHIZING              
                                                          
COMPETING                       COOPERATING               
                                                          
CONDEMNING                      FORGIVING                 
                                                          
EXCOMMUNICATING                 RECONCILING               
                                                          
ATTACKING                       PEACEMAKING               
                                                          
COERCIVE                        HELPFUL                   
                                                          
The  only  way to mitigate the damage done to us  and  our
communities by "The Domination System"  ---  is for us  to
understand  how and why its supporters behave as  they do,
and then for us to subvert "The Domination System"  in the
ways  of  Love.   We must learn how to  withhold  respect,
honor  and  support  from supporters  of  "The  Domination
System"   ---   without becoming like supporters  of  "The
Domination System."  That is not easy to do!  We will fail
if  we think that it is easy to do while we are failing to
do it.                                                    
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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