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   %DENIABILITY AFFIRMATIONS POSITIVE VALUES IDEALS+000310
  %PRINCIPLES MORALITY APPEARANCES EXCLUSIVE DEVILS+000310
 %SUPPORT COLLUSIVE DOMINATION SYSTEM ARROGANCE SIN 000310
                                                          
     The "affirmations"  of supporters of "The  Domination
System"   often entail veiled denials of the legitimacy of
the open,  honest and intimate relationships among  lovers
--- who   might  expose  the  nature  of  the  collusions,
addictions and codependent  supporters of "The  Domination
System".    To  protect  the  apparent integrity  of  "The
Domination  System"   there must be "proper" bounds placed
upon openness, honesty, intimacy and expressions of sexual
desires.                                                  
                                                          
     Supporters  of "The Domination System"  cleverly make
it difficult to see the difference between the bounds that
they  seek  to  maintain ---  and other more  helpful  and
liberating  bounds which true lovers respect,   honor  and
support.      The  differences  relate  to  questions   of
dominance,   control,   balance,   mutuality, integration,
personal integrity, and communal integrity.               
                                                          
     To  maintain "The  Domination System"  such questions
must  be  excluded  from  consideration,    out-of-bounds,
excluded.  So, the people who raise such questions must be
excluded from consideration, out-of-bounds,  excluded from
"family".    "Proper"  people do not raise such questions.
People who raise such questions are excluded  from  "good-
company" and from positions of power,   influence,  honor,
and respect.   "Law,  order and high moral standards" must
be maintained --- in ways which will help to preserve "The
Domination System."    The fact that there are more honest
and better ways to  promote  personal integrity,  communal
integrity  and  the health  of all communities  and  their
members  ---   must be kept out of bounds as  a  concealed
fact.                                                     
                                                          
     Supporters of "The Domination System"  are willing to
sacrifice:     openness,   honesty,   personal  integrity,
communal integrity,  and communal health ---  to  maintain
"The  Domination System"  ---  which is their petty god in
their idolatrous  system of controls within which they are
the petty servants of their petty god.                    
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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