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    %HOW DEFINE NATURE HEALTHY SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS+981213
 %ENCOURAGE INVOLVEMENT AVOID OPEN HONESTY OWN SINS+981213                   
 %BALANCE COERCIVE MANIPULATIONS ADDICTION CODEPEND+981213                                                
  %ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS JUDGMENTALISM EVILS+981213       
  %EXCOMMUNICATION IMBALANCE POWER CORRUPT FAILURES+981213                                             
 %IMPERFECTION LEGALISM CONDEMNATION COMMUNICATIONS+981213                                                                
   %VULNERABILITY SECURITY HUMANE PERSONAL COMMUNAL+981213                                            
%INTEGRITY HEALTH WHOLE POLITICS CHILD ADULT PARENT 981213                                                          
                                                                                                                               
     We  need  to  clarify the nature  of  healthy  sexual
relationships --- for many prominent religious,  political               
and business leaders are taking advantage of our confusion                                                            
in this matter.   In light of the confusion in  Washington                                                                     
D.C. it is clear that some changes are in order as the new                                                                     
race for President of the United States begins.                                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     How  can  we to define the nature of  healthy  sexual
relationships so as to thereby:                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Encourage people  to  become  involved in healthy                                                            
sexual relationships, and help  people  to  avoid becoming
involved in un-healthy sexual relationships?
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Encourage  people to be open and honest about the                                                            
nature of healthy sexual relationships?
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Promote  mutuality  and  balance  within   humane                            
sexual relationships?
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Help  people  to  avoid  coercive  manipulations,                                                                    
imbalance of power, and addictive relationships?                                             
                                                                                                                               
     5.  Help people to avoid destructive arrogance,  self                                                      
righteousness,   judgmentalism and excommunications  which       
are related to people's imperfect sexual relationships?
                                                                                                                               
     6.  Facilitate and  promote truly  healthy  intimacy,                     
vulnerability,   and  security  among  close  friends  and                                                                     
associates.                                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                               
     7.  Elicit  honesty  about  unhealthy  preoccupations                                                                  
with:  issues  of control,  failures with discipline,  and                                                           
other human imperfections and limitations.                                            
                                                                                                                               
     8.  Facilitate and promote both personal and communal                                                                
integrity  by  working to heal   the painful  wounds    of                                                                   
pretentiousness, judgmentalism and perfectionism.                                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     9.  Promote respect for humane differences which  are                                     
creative,   healthy,  and essential for both personal  and                  
communal integrity.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     10.  Facilitate   healthy  forms  of   personal   and                                                                 
communal integration  by  offering  gifts of  security and                                                                
justice for people who are vulnerable and powerless.                                             
                                                                                                                               
     When we  are preoccupied with sexuality in narrow and
exclusive  ways  we are  bound  to  promote  personal  and      
communal  disintegration  through our  own  arrogance  and                   
expanding   sense   of self-righteousness.      This   has       
been  demonstrated   by many religious,    political   and               
business  leaders  who are courting our uncritical   favor                                                            
and support from inside Washington D.C.                                                                                        
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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