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%POWERFUL PREOCCUPATION ISSUE CONTROL BALANCED EVIL+981127                                       
  %MUTUAL PERSONAL RELATIONS PERSONAL INTEGRITY SIN+981127                            
 %CRUCIFY CHRIST JESUS CROSS SAVIOR POOR RICH POWER 981127                                             
                                                                                                                               
     Powerful  people  who are preoccupied with  issues of                                             
control     cannot    with   integrity     participate  in                           
personal relationships  with  poorer/weaker  people within                             
relationships which are: healthy,  balanced, mutual, open,                            
honest, and integrative.  This is so because:                          
                                                                                                                               
     1.  To  maintain  their positions of  superior  power                                             
they  cannot   tolerate letting the  poorer/weaker  people                                                                    
exercise   as    much  power  and   influence   over   the                                             
relationships as they the richer/stronger participants do.                           
Their   relationships   must   be   controlled   by    the                                                           
richer/stronger participants.                           
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Preoccupied  powerful/richer  people are bound to                                             
be   participants   in  collusive games of   mutual   self                           
deception.    They  cannot  let the  poorer/weaker  people 
become  aware of their  collusive games ---    and so they                                                   
cannot be involved  in  relationships which are  balanced,                                                              
mutual,    open,    honest   and   integrative.      Their                            
collusive   games   must   be protected   at   all  costs;                                                   
including   the cost of further deterioration of  personal                                                                 
and communal integrity.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Preoccupied powerful/richer people are  bound  to                                             
regard     as     taboo     all   honest  and/or  balanced                                 
relationships      between powerful/richer    people   and                                             
weaker/poorer    people.  Any leader  who seeks to promote               
love,        reconciliation,    cooperation,      sharing,                                           
fellowship,     respect,     and  intimate   relationships                     
between   people  who  are powerful/richer   and    people                                             
who  are  weaker/poorer---is  bound  to  be vilified   and                                                                     
crucified     in    order    to   maintain   the     power                                             
relationships which  have been traditionally respected  by                                      
powerful/richer people.                                             
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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