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%RECOGNIZE NAME DESCRIBE TRULY INTEGRATIVE CRITERIA+981106                                                                   
%PRIORITIES DICHOTOMOUS EITHER/OR ALTERNATIVES GOAL+981106                                                                     
%PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY WHOLE HEALTHY WELLNESS+981106                                                          
 %COOPERATION OPEN HONEST DIALOGUE CONTEND CONFLICT 981106                
                                                                                                                               
     We  will  be  well and do well when we  cooperate  in                                                                     
recognizing,  naming,   describing and talking openly  and                                                                     
honestly  about  the differences between  those  criteria,                                     
values  and ideals which lead toward personal and communal                                         
integrity --- on the one hand, and those others which lead                                                               
toward  personal and communal disintegration ---   on  the                                                                
other hand.                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Beware  of those  people  who focus upon isolated                                                                    
grounds  for   isolating people ---    for  they  engender                                                                    
alienation,  ignorance,     misunderstanding,   prejudice,                                        
confusion, suspicion, distrust, defensive insecurity, etc.                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Honor   those  people  who  focus  upon  coherent                                                                    
grounds  for  the    integration    of   people   and   of                                                                   
their:  ideals,  perceptions, experiences,  insights,  and        
approaches to each other and diverse situations.                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Beware  of  those who focus  upon  questions  and                                                                     
procedures    which   lead   to   either/or:    attitudes,              
thinking,  and conclusions. Through their dichotomous ways      
and    contentious       behaviors      they      engender                
alienation,  ignorance,     misunderstanding,   prejudice,                                        
confusion, suspicion, distrust, defensive insecurity, etc.                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Honor    those people who  focus  upon  questions                                                                    
and  procedures   which  lead to the  discussion  of  many              
possible  priorities    among   alternatives   which   are                                                                     
present  and pressing for attention ---  and so ultimately                                                                     
to  priority  voting  leading to the selection  of  a  few                                                                     
priorities   which are   supported  by a majority  of  the                                                                     
participants  and which are also at  the  top  of a  rank-                           
ordering  ---    according  to weighted voting  indicating                                                                     
participants'  senses of  which proposals   are  most  and                           
least  in  need  of  immediate attention and action.                 
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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