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 %DISINTEGRATE PARADIGM APPROACH WAY LIVE STYLE SIN+981018      
%ALIENATIVE ATTITUDE SYSTEM FORMULA COERCIVE ADDICT+981018                                    
%DEFENSIVE VULNERABLE VICTIM INSECURE FEAR CONTROLS+981018                                                           
%DEVILS EXCOMMUNICATE FAILURE DISINTEGRATE RELATION 981018                                       
                                                                                                                               
     It is important that we learn how to recognize, name,                                               
describe and  talk  about personal paradigms,  approaches,                                                                 
live    styles,     formulas   and   systems  ---    which                                    
engender disintegrative  alienation.   The following words                                        
suggest what kinds of personal behaviors they engender:                                                       
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
VIOLENT              COERCIVE           MANIPULATIVE           
                                                                                                                               
CONTROLLING          FORCIBLE           COMMANDING                                                           
                                                                                                                               
DOMINANT             LORDLY             AUTHORITATIVE                                                     
                                                                                                                               
DICTATORIAL          TOTALITARIAN       ABSOLUTE                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
AUTOCRATIC           TYRANNICAL         ARBITRARY                                                                              
                                                                                                                               
DOCTRINAIRE          DESPOTIC           CAPRICIOUS                                                                             
                                                                                                                               
PREJUDICED           UNBALANCED         FANATICAL                                                                              
                                                                                                                               
EXTREMIST            FRAGMENTIVE        DIVISIVE                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     It is easy  to recognize instances of what is pointed                                                                     
to    by   the   above  words---when  the   instances  are                                                                     
encountered in  people  who  are flagrant in  their  abuse                                                                    
of  power;  especially if they  operate  within   contexts                
which DO NOT enjoy high levels of respect and support.                                      
                                                                                                                               
     It  is  NOT EASY to  recognize instances of  what  is                                                                     
pointed  to   by  the above words---when   the   instances                                                                     
are  encountered  in people who are smooth and  subtle  in                                                                    
their  abuse of power;  especially if they operate  within                             
contexts  which   HAVE  LONG  ENJOYED   high   levels   of                
respect   and  support.      Often  such  people  in  such                                      
contexts  do  far more damage than anybody recognizes  ---               
and so their victims  find  it  almost  impossible to deal                                                                     
effectively with the damage  which is done.   It  is often                                                                     
difficult to deprive those people  of the high levels   of                                                                    
respect   and  support   which   they   have traditionally                                      
enjoyed and abused.                                                                                                            
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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