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 %IMPROPER PRIORITIES VALUES IDEALS IMPORTANCE LOVE+981009                                         
   %EXCLUSIVE CONTROL ISSUE PREOCCUPATION ADDICTION+981009                       
  %FUNDAMENTALS CHRISTIAN GOSPEL FAITH DOCTRINE SIN+981009                                                                     
  %DEVIL ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT EXCOMMUNICATION GO 981009                                       
                                                                                                                               
     People  who  are preoccupied with issues  of  control                                                           
often  object  to how other people  affirm   complementary                                               
values,  ideals,  principles,  attitudes,  and priorities.                                         
They  often  refuse to acknowledge that each person  might                                                                 
behave responsibly,   prudently, and with in integrity ---                                  
in  a variety of different ways which are consistent  with      
their unique talents,   gifts,  abilities,   dispositions,                                                                     
desires, interests, and contexts.          
                                                                                                                               
     People  who  are preoccupied with issues  of  control                                                           
refuse to deal with the complexities of real life in which                                                                     
different   people prudently should respond differently to                                  
their     unique    talents,       gifts,       abilities,                                                                     
dispositions,    desires,  interests,    and  contexts ---          
in  ways  which  cannot  be prudently specified in  detail      
by  any  conventional  set  of  commandments,       rules,               
regulations,     prescriptions, proscriptions,  doctrines,                                                                     
etc.      The key to life is not conformity  of  any kind.            
The  best  that can  be  offered entails:     suggestions,                                                                     
guidelines,     guard-rails,    paths,   playing   fields,                                                                     
descriptions  of   hazards  and  dangers,  warnings  based                                                                     
upon  past  experiences,  etc.    The best  that  can   be                                   
offered   does  not  entail:      coercion,      controls,                                                           
violence,  exclusivity,  legalism, judgmentalism, shaming,           
condemnations, alienation, estrangement,  excommunication,                                        
terrorism, or other related manipulative procedures.              
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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