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%DISINTEGRATIVE COMPLAINTS IMMATURE STANDING RIGHTS+980624       
  %COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION DISHONESTY+980624 
   %DOUBLE BIND PRISON LIBERATION HEALING RECONCILE 980624                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     Disintegrative  complaints  are complaints which  are                                                                   
made  by  contentious  people against each  other  because                
they:                                                                                                                          
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Do  not want  to  acknowledge  the merits of each                                                                     
other's positive affirmations.                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Are intellectually,   emotionally and/or socially                                                                     
immature, "injured", and/or out of balance in some way.      
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Are  protecting their respective collusive  games                                      
of  mutual self-deception;  and are thereby blinded,  deaf 
and dumb to the disintegrative consequences thereof.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Have  not  agreed  upon  the  pre-requisites  for                                                                     
having  legitimate "standing"  to bring complaints against                                                                     
others.                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     5.  Do   not  recognize  and  respect  the  generally                                      
accepted  principles  which  are  operative  in   properly         
constituted court proceedings --- in regards to "standing"              
to bring complaints and/or charges against another person.                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     6.  Do  not want to truly resolve conflicts ---   and                                              
may in  fact  regard violent conflict as an essential tool           
to use in achieving dominance over others.                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     7.  Are  dominated by disintegrative fears which  are                                                     
associated with: ignorance,  confusion,   mis-information,                                                                     
and/or prejudice.                                                                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     It  is  dangerous to treat disintegrative  complaints                                                                   
with complaints which merit respect and/or support --- for                                      
doing so leads to personal and communal disintegration.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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