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 %INHIBIT SEXUAL KNOWLEDGE EXPERIENCE UNDERSTANDING+980523
 %PRESCRIPTIVE PROSCRIPTIVE DESCRIPTIVE COMMAND SIN+980523                                                                     
 %INTIMATE FRIENDLY OPEN HONEST VULNERABLE RELATION 980523                     
                                                                                                                               
     People  who are preoccupied with  issues  of  control                                                           
cannot  tolerate  knowledge  that  other  people  are  not                                                               
preoccupied  with issues of control ---  and are free  to,                                                           
and do, enjoy intimate  relationships  ---   even  healthy                     
sexual relationships which  are not  carefully disciplined
and controlled   according    to   proper   prescriptions,                                                           
proscriptions, commandments, taboos, etc.                                                                                      
                                                                                                                               
     Controllers  seek to focus people's attention in ways      
which   facilitate   their  maintenance   of   discipline,                                                                     
controls, prescriptions, proscriptions  and   commandments                                                           
---  without regard for how much alienation, estrangement,                                 
misunderstanding,   ignorance and prejudice is  engendered                                                    
thereby.   Their priorities lead to personal and  communal                                                                
disintegration.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     Controllers   cannot  control  people's  assumptions,                                                           
attitudes,  feelings,  emotions,  thoughts,   desires  and          
hopes.     Thus  they  focus upon what can be  controlled;                                                           
people's  appearances,  speech,  language,   role-playing,                                                                    
acting,  games,  competition and other superficial aspects                                                               
of  being.   Thus they encourage  dishonesty,   deception, 
pretentions,   arrogance,   and other forms of  misleading                                                               
behaviors.     Controllers promote personal  and  communal                                                       
disintegration.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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