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    %CREATURE HUMAN DIFFERENT RELATIONS COOPERATION+980407                         
   %CONFLICT DOMINANCE INVITATION COMMAND PRESCRIBE 980407                                              
                                                                                                                               
     Just as individual creatures are  different,  so also                         
are relationships between creatures.                         
                                                                                                                               
     This is true for all different kinds of creatures and                        
for their inter-relationships; whether human or other.                      
                                                                                                                               
     Different people differ in various ways:      
                                                                                                                               
HEREDITY       HERITAGE       CULTURE      TRADITIONS                                                                          
                                                                                                                               
GENETICS       LANGUAGE       ATTITUDES    ASSUMPTIONS                                                                         
                                                                                                                               
EDUCATION      MENTORING      MODELS       STORIES                                                                             
                                                                                                                               
RANKINGS       CASTINGS       AUTHORITIES  COMMANDMENTS                                                                        
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     People relate to each other in contrasting ways:      
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     Dominance   and   submission,                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     Invitations into   and   joining in cooperation,  
                                                                                                                               
     Casual/spontaneous interactions  and                      
                                                                                                                               
     Formal/systematic interactions,                      
                                                                                                                               
     Short-term   and   long-term relationships,                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     Addictive   and   codependent relationships,                                                
                                                                                                                               
     Planned/Goal-oriented   and   relationships-oriented,                                                              
                                                                                                                               
     Verbal   and   non-verbal relationships.                                                              
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     Efforts to  make all different creatures to be alike,                         
or  to make all relationships between different  creatures                         
alike,  are efforts which are doomed to failure  ---   for                                                                     
those who try to impose  conformity will be different from            
those  who  rebel  against  imposed  conformity.      Such            
efforts  heighten differences more successfully than  they                                     
eliminate  differences.    Different creatures respond  to                         
the  various kinds of such efforts in different  ways  ---      
and  so maintain  the diversity which is essential to  the                  
vitality and integrity of living communities.                                                                
                                                                                                                               
     Attempts  by  some people to homogenize other  people                                                               
and their  relationships  ---   entail/engender  coercion,                                                              
dishonesty,  and violence --- which lead to  personal  and           
communal differentiation and disintegration.                                     
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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