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%ADDICTIVE DEPENDENCY RIGHTS LOYALTY COLLUSIVE GAME+980310       
%SATISFY MEET PERSONAL IDENTITY NEED SACRIFICE SELF+980310                 
  %CODEPEND SUPPORT FANTASY BONDING PRISON EVIL SIN+980310                                       
  %LEADERSHIP POWER CORRUPT COMMUNAL DISINTEGRATION 980310                                             
                                                                                                                               
     Personal and communal integrity suffer when assertive                                                                
people  and respected leaders act as if they  should  have                                      
the right  to depend upon codependent supporters whom they       
have unilaterally chosen to serve them --- to help:                                                                            
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Fulfill their sense of importance and identity.                                                                       
     2.  Promote their achievements and life style.                                                                            
     3.  Them feel superior to lesser people.                                                                    
     4.  Affirm collusive games of self deception. 
     5.  Affirm their unilateral sense of bonding.                                                                             
     6.  Sustain group loyalty and certainty.                                                                                  
     7.  Protect them against the threats of ambiguity.                                                                        
     8.  Conceal mistakes made, to minimize embarrassment.                               
     9.  Transform ideals & values, to serve their needs.                 
     10. Make life simpler and more comfortable for them.                                                                      
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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