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 %LOVE RISK INSECURE DEFENSE SAFE VULNERABILITY SIN+971103                                           
%RENEWAL REVOLUTION RECONCILIATION CONFLICT RENEWAL+971103                                              
  %REJECTION EXCLUSIVE PERSONAL RELATION ALIENATION+971103                       
   %COMMUNAL PERSONAL INTEGRITY ACCEPTANCE DIALOGUE+971103         
 %CONTROL SYSTEMATIC PLAN ENGINEER GOAL PURPOSE AIM 971103                                    
                                                                                                                               
     People   unlikely  to  take  prudent  risks    within                             
exclusive     communities     (which   are    prone     to                       
reject, excommunicate and banish people who make mistakes)                                                                
fail   to  conform  properly  and/or  otherwise  embarrass            
members  of  the  community.     People who  do  not  take                                                                
prudent  risks  do   not learn  new  things.     Excessive                                                                     
prudence   leads   to   not   taking   prudent      risks.                                                                     
Judgementalism,     condemnations   and exclusivity   have                       
chilling   effects   upon  prudent   risk taking.   It  is                                                                     
very  risky  to  be excessively prudent to  the  point  of                                                                     
trying to avoid all risk-taking.                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     People who do the "same old thing," over and over, do                                                                    
not  discover that in many situations the "same old thing"               
is  the wrong  thing.    There is  risk in doing something                                                                     
new when  you  fear the rejection of friends who are stuck                                                                     
in old ruts and cannot recognize how stuck they are.                                               
                                                                                                                               
     Risk-taking entails the risk of rejection, judgement,                                                                     
condemnation   and  excommunication  by  people  who   are                                                                
insecure  and defensive.   Their insecurity  is heightened                                                                     
when  they see other people doing new things for which the                                                               
outcomes are not guaranteed.    They seek to be in control                                                           
of  outcomes  and seek guarantees  of  anticipated/desired          
outcomes.      People   who  do  not  conform   to   their            
expectations  heighten their levels of anxiety and are not                                                                     
well tolerated.                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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