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   %DISINTEGRATIVE GROUNDS OBJECTION EMBARRASS EVIL+961226
  %IMMORAL UNETHICAL SINFUL BEHAVIOR LEGALISTIC SIN 961226

     People  often  fail to recognize that some  overt  or
implicit grounds for objecting to "objectionable" behavior
are    disintegrative  grounds.      Such   disintegrative
grounds    for   objection   are   often   respected    in
disintegrative  ways.    We often fail  to be well and  do
well because we fail to  recognize disintegrative  grounds
for  objecting   to   "objectionable"   behaviors.    Such
disintegrative grounds include:

     1.  The  need  to conceal participation in  collusive
games   of   mutual   self deception and  to  concede  the
rules  of  such games.

     2.    The  emotional  immaturity  of adults  who  are
embarrassed  by healthy/integrative behaviors   of   other
adults  who  are  involved in  open  and  honest  intimate
relationships.

     3.  Not  wanting  ignorance,  confusion,   prejudice,
incompetence, mistakes,  embarrassment, dishonesty, fears,
addictions,    idolatry,   and disease:  to be exposed  to
public  view even though personal and  communal  integrity
are thereby threatened.

     4.  Arrogant preoccupations with issues of control.

     Often disintegrative grounds for objecting are masked
with   disintegrative pretense that they  are  integrative
grounds  for objecting on the basis of proper standards of
morality, ethics, law, and/or professional organizations.

     We will not be well or do well if we are  indifferent
to  confusion  about  what are disintegrative grounds  for
objecting   to   integrative  behaviors;   and  what   are
integrative   grounds   for  objecting  to  disintegrative
behaviors.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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