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   %PRESCRIBED FORBIDDEN REFLEXIVE BEHAVIOR COLLUDE+961214
  %COMMAND LAW DISCIPLE OBJECTIVE EMOTIONS EVIL SIN+961214
      %COLLUSIVE PUBLICATION ADDICTION CODEPENDENCE+961214
  %EMOTIONS FEARS DESIRES PRIVATE RELATIONSHIP FAIL 961214

     Published   helpful   public  laws  deal   with   the
regulation of  objective  behaviors  which can reliably be
publicly  confirmed  to  have occurred  or  not  occurred.
Certain kinds of   objective  behavior  are  forbidden  in
particular  circumstances.    Other  kinds  of   objective
behavior are required in particular circumstances.

     Published  helpful  public  laws do  not  deal   with
subjective   behaviors  which  are  beyond  the  realm  of
reliable public confirmation as having occurred, or as not
having occurred.    Published helpful public  laws do  not
deal  with private  thoughts  which  have  not  engendered
objective behavior.   Published helpful public laws do not
deal  with private relationships between people  who  have
not  engaged  in  objectionable  objective  behavior while
having engaged in all required objective behaviors.

     In  contrast  to  published  helpful  public  laws---
collusive games of  mutual self deception often entail the
operation of concealed  "laws"  which deal with subjective
behaviors  which  are beyond the realm of reliable  public
confirmation  as  having  occurred,   or  as  not   having
occurred.    Such  concealed collusive "laws"  often  deal
with:

     1.  Private emotions, hopes, aspirations, desires,
   fears, anxieties, etc.

     2.  Private thoughts, logic, reasoning, conclusions,
   meditations, prayers, etc.

     3.  Private relationships, conversations, dialogues,
   intimacies, etc.

     Concealed  "laws"  often prescribe how  people  shall
respond   to   particular   events,    circumstances   and
situations; and how they shall not respond.   They promote
conformity  to  "traditional"  and "proper"   patterns  of
behavior.    The  persons  who  do  not  conform  are  ex-
communicated; excluded from "proper" circles of dialogue.

     The purpose of  such collusive  "laws"  is to control
people's behaviors so as to conceal the collusive games of
mutual self deception  which "pass"  the collusive  "laws"
for dishonest purposes.   Collusive "laws"  do not operate
openly  and  honestly  because  they  lack  integrity  and
promote  both personal and communal  disintegration.    By
their  nature they are inherently dishonest for  dishonest
purposes.

     Collusive  "laws"   have often  operated  to  protect
traditional patterns of:

     1.  Enslavement of weak people by dominant strong
   people.

     2.  Segregation of minority people by majorities.

     3.  Domination of and abuse of females by dominant
   males.

     4.  Imposition of religious doctrines and rituals
   upon people who do not welcome them.

     5.  Domination and abuse of weak children by dominant
   strong adults.

     6.     Objective  scientific  thought  imposed   upon
creative
   reflexive people who threaten to transcend
   objective scientific thought.

     7.  Crusaders dominating long-time-natives in their
   own territories.

     8.  Self-righteous fundamentalists who are blind to
   all truths but their own carefully selected
   fundamentals which have been chosen to bolster
   their own self-righteousness.

     To enjoy both personal and communal integrity we need
to work together to transcend all collusive "laws".  Often
this    will  entail  recognizing  that  such laws  exist;
and articulating what it is that they "forbid",  and  what
it  is that they "require".   Such discernment  is  always
difficult  due   to  the tacit nature of collusive  "laws"
which  are never articulated, published, or acknowledged.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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