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 %CELEBRATION LEADERS COMPETITION RELATIONSHIPS SIN+961130
 %AFFIRMATION MENTORS VIOLENCE ACHIEVEMENTS PERSONS+961130
 %RESPONSIBLE EXAMPLE TERROR FEAR ANXIETY EMBARRASS 961130

     Communities    which    celebrate     INDIVIDUALISTIC
ACHIEVEMENTS, COMPETITIONS, and DOMINANCE are mislead into
addictive/codependent     relationships     which      are
disintegrative of persons and communities.

     Communities   which  celebrate  healthy   INTEGRATIVE
RELATIONSHIPS   are   lead  by  people  of integrity  into
true   security   known  as  the  freedom   to  be  safely
vulnerable   and  liberated   through  open  and    honest
intimacy which is not exclusive.

     We  may see the future of a community by seeing  what
the   community   celebrates  today.      If   INTEGRATIVE
RELATIONSHIPS between people are  not  celebrated today---
the community is likely to disintegrate.

     Communities  which  are dominated by  scientific  and
objective    considerations   related   to    manipulative
understandings,  predictions and control---are disinclined
to focus upon INTEGRATIVE RELATIONSHIPS for:

     1.  INTEGRATIVE  RELATIONSHIPS  between  people   are
essentially reflexive; not objective, not scientific,  not
manipulative,   not  predictable,   not  controlled,   not
controllable.

     2.  INTEGRATIVE  RELATIONSHIPS between people  cannot
be  assured  by  means  of  rules,   laws,    regulations,
prescriptions, proscriptions, commandments, etc.

     3.  INTEGRATIVE  RELATIONSHIPS between people are not
means  by  which  individual  people  and  businesses  can
advance their own agendas ahead of others' agendas.

     4.  INTEGRATIVE  RELATIONSHIPS between people are not
goals  or  ends to be achieved---they  are  beginnings and
continuations of processes of healthy change.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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