This is http://www.essayz.com/a9610121.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %INTEGRATE RESPONSE PERSON COMMUNAL SEEK DESIRE SEX 961012 How can we most helpfully respond to circumstances, contexts, events, desires, visions, fantasies, mistakes, failures, catastrophes, problems and tragedies---which threaten our personal and communal integrity? How are we to find the most helpful way, path, approach, attitudes, assumptions, beliefs, convictions, guidance, etc? If we are committed to promoting both personal and communal integrity---truly seeking both personal and communal intensity---we WILL always respond to challenges to our integrities with as much personal and communal integrity as we can---in ways which will augment both our personal and communal integrity in balanced ways. We will NOT be driven and guided by fears. We will NOT sacrifice our freedom to be true to ourselves and each other in secure intimate relationships known as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. We will NOT seek to be better than each other in exclusive ways. We will NOT be legalistic and judgmental condemners --- prone to rejection, excommunication, alienation, coercion, violence, terrorism and war. We will NOT sacrifice justice and mercy for revenge, humility for arrogance; or peace for exclusive self righteousness. We WILL do justice, love mercy and walk humble with each other in the presence of God as Her loved children. When we are confronted by circumstances, contexts, events, desires, visions, fantasies, mistakes, failures, catastrophes, problems and tragedies---we can most helpfully respond to those challenges to our integrities with as much personal and communal integrity as we can. If we do not do so we will most likely lose our way and so lose our personal and communal integrity. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================