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                     %TRULY FALLING IN LOVE PROCESS 961007

     The process of people truly falling in love is NOT:

     1.  Coercive
     2.  Violent
     3.  Unilateral
     4.  Prescribed
     5.  Formal
     6.  Pre-planned
     7.  Goal-oriented
     8.  Controlled
     9.  Contractual
    10.  Undisciplined
    11.  Unprincipled
    12.  Without-boundaries
    13.  One-sided


     People who are truly falling in love  offer, receive,
acknowledge,  and  respond  to  signals  in  many  ways---
regarding their respective and respected visions,  dreams,
hopes, aspirations, desires, fantasies, fears, etc.

     People  who  are truly falling in love do not  insist
upon their own way.    They are not irritable or rude when
the  other(s)  do not want to go their way:  not yet,  not
here not now, not planned, not likely ever . . .


     People  who  are  truly falling in love  are  gentle,
patient, kind, sensitive, responsive . . .

     People who  are truly falling in love are  not  in  a
hurry, frantic, pushy, demanding, impatient . . .

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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