This is http://www.essayz.com/a9609043.htm         
Previous-Essay      <== This-Essay ==>     Following-Essay
Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words.
{Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.}
==========================================================
%LACK LOVE PARENT MOTHERING INSECURITY NURTURE SAFE+960904
  %PEACEMAKER CONFLICT RESOLUTION VIOLENCE COERCION+960904
%VILLAGE TRIBE CHURCH SYNAGOGUE CITY FATHERS LEADER+960904
  %EMOTIONAL INTELLECT DECISION BEHAVIOR UNDERSTAND 960904

     Children  who  lack  love,   parenting,    mothering,
fathering and  secure nurturing in their early years  grow
up to be insecure and defensive adults who do not know how
to make peace; how to be peacemakers.

     If  we  want there to be peace in the world  we  must
work   to  provide  true  love,   parenting,    mothering,
fathering,   and  security  in the primary family and  the
extended family; the village support system.

     Many   adult  decisions,   behaviors,    actions  and
dysfunctionalities flow through emotional and intellectual
responses  rooted in childhood---in ways which are  rarely
understood.

     Often our decisions,  behaviors,  actions and overall
response  patterns  flow from emotional  considerations---
without    intellectual    considerations   playing    any
significant role.   More often than not our responses flow
from  emotional  considerations which are  quite  separate
from  intellectual considerations.   Our  rationalizations
are more often than not after-the-fact rituals designed to
justify  our response as being reasonable---when  in  fact
our response  was  based primarily upon just our emotional
realities  rooted in what did  and  did  not happen in our
infancy,   childhood  and adolescence.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
==========================================================