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       %FALLING LOVE INTIMACY SEXUAL TOGETHER UNION 960904

     The process  of  truly falling  in  love  and  moving
toward healthy increasing levels  of  intimacy and  sexual
togetherness is:

     1.  One of growing mutual trust in each other's being
reliably:   gentle,   kind,  compassionate,   sympathetic,
present,  thoughtful, generous,  supportive,  cooperative,
honest, helpful, etc.

     2.  One of increasing willingness to engage in mutual
self disclosure in light of all of the above---and finding
pleasure therein.

     3.  One  of  an increasing sense of sharing  power in
balanced ways.

     4.  One  characterized by giving and accepting  gifts
of the freedom to be safely venerable.

               - - - and so - - -

     5.  Not a technical procedure which can be prescribed
in advance as a means to achieving a specific  anticipated
or planned goal.

     6.  Not the same for each person therein involved.

     7.  Not promoted by demands, coercion, or violence.

     8.  Not characterized by preoccupations  with  issues
of: control, ownership, exclusivity, duties, blame, fault,
imperfections, fixes, etc.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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