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   %REALITY FOCUS LOGIC DENIAL CONFUSION DISHONESTY+960530
   %DEFENSIVE SECURITY SAFE VULNERABILITY FEAR EVIL 960530

     If we deny the reality of our denials, confusions and
dishonesty---we cannot deal effectively with them.

     If  we are confused about the nature of our  denials,
confusions  and  dishonesty---we cannot  deal  effectively
with them.

     If we mask our denials, confusions and dishonest---we
cannot deal effectively with them.

     If  we are not open and honest about the logic of our
denials,    confusions  and  dishonest---we  cannot   deal
effectively with them.

     Our   denials,   confusions  and  dishonesty   appear
logical, non-existent,  worthy of  respect and coherent to
us because:

     1.  They  are  defensive  tools  in  our  efforts  to
achieve   security   for   our   selves   within   hostile
environments.

     2.  We  are  full of fears and know no other ways  to
deal with our fears.

     3.  We  do  not share and  enjoy free and  liberating
gifts  of the freedom to be safely vulnerable within truly
secure communal contexts.

     4.  We   feel  we  must  avoid/deny  mistakes  to  be
invulnerable and so secure.

     5.  We  seek the comfort of others who agree with  us
about our assumptions,  prejudices,  perceptions, beliefs,
convictions, dogmas, and doctrines.

     6.  We  seek  power to be in control of all  that  we
perceive to be the cause of our fears.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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