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  %PAIRED COMPLEMENT CONTENTIOUS COOPERATIVE BEHAVE+960528
 %BELIEF ATTITUDE ASSUME WORK RELAX WAIT HURRY FAST 960528

     People  may be paired in their behaviors in a variety
of ways:

     1.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS FOLLOW.
     2.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES FOLLOW.
     3.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS REACT.
     4.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES REACT.
     5.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS RESPOND.
     6.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES RESPOND.
     7.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS OPPOSE.
     8.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES OPPOSE.
     9.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS RESPECT.
    10.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES RESPECT.
    11.  One may ALWAYS lead, the other ALWAYS CONTEND.
    12.  Each may SOMETIMES lead, SOMETIMES CONTEND.

          Similarly with regards to:

     A.  BUILD      and  DESTROY
     B.  INTEGRATE  and  FRAGMENT
     C.  CONTROL    and  REBEL
     D.  AGREE      and  DISAGREE
     E.  WORK       and  DEPEND
     F.  BEGIN      and  COMPLETE

     It  is particularly important to  recognize  behavior
which  is  habitual in the above ways,  rather  than  just
occasional.

     It  may  be  helpful  to  seek  to  recognizing   the
instances  in which people and/or groups'   behaviors  are
paired; and the manner of pairing---and whether or not the
pairing and/or  its  manner  is  over-all  integrative  or
disintegrative.    Often appearances are  (accidentally or
intentionally)    deceiving.     We  need  to  beware   of
accepting appearances naively; without careful examination
and   thought.     We  may  profit  greatly  from  careful
examination,  thought, consideration,  meditation,  prayer
and dialogue regarding paired patterns of behavior.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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