This is http://www.essayz.com/a9605253.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %ENJOY PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRITY MEDITATE PRAYER 960525 To enjoy personal and communal integrity we need to seek to make congruent the many aspects of our lives: 1. Our own personal ideals and values. 2. The ideals and values of our family & community. 3. Our own assumptions, attitudes and behaviors. 4. Communal assumptions, attitudes & behaviors. 5. Our descriptions of ideals, values, behaviors. 6. Our explanations of discrepancies. 7. Communal explanations of discrepancies. Pretense, dishonesty and secrecy in any of the above aspects of our lives undermine both personal and communal integrity. Rationalizations and collusions are dysfunctional; no matter how many respected and powerful people are supportive of them. People and communities cannot enjoy personal and communal integrity in the absence of frequent and non- coercive meditation, reflection and prayer called by whatever name(s) they may be called. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================