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 %SECRET PRESCRIBE FORMULA COLLUSION ADDICT CONFORM+960427
%DISINTEGRATION OPEN HONESTY DESCRIBE UNIQUE PERSON+960427
     %EXPERIENCE LEARN MISTAKES RESPONSIVE DESCRIBE 960427

     People who live  prescriptive  lives (which are often
patterned secretly and dishonestly by coercive formula) do
not  and  cannot  permit  themselves/others  to openly and
honestly  describe/report   their   own   unique  personal
experiences---which  do  not conform to their conventional
and  required  prescriptions/formula.   Thus  they  cannot
learn from their  unique  experiences,   and  so they lead
dysfunctional lives.

     Other people live existential  lives which are openly
and  honestly  responsive  to the unique  aspects of their
personal experiences and heritages.

     Whenever    conformity    to    traditions     and/or
prescriptions is regarded as more  important than open and
honest personal responses and/or  descriptions of personal
experiences---people and communities disintegrate.

     Conformists  do  not   expect  people  to  openly and
honestly  respond  to  and  describe  their  own  personal
experiences which are unique to themselves; for conformity
to  "holy"   traditions and prescriptions is  of  ultimate
importance to them.   Openness and honesty are dispensable
and are often sold  in order to achieve conformity, or the
appearance of conformity.

     Conformists   do  not  live  lives  of  personal  and
communal  integrity.   They live lives  which  reveal  the
futility of coercive laws,  rules and regulations---in the
absence of free  gifts of  the freedom to be secure within
intimate   personal  relationships  which  entail  healthy
vulnerability.

     Whenever unique personal experiences cannot be safely
reported  openly  and  honestly---it   is  impossible  for
communities  to  adjust with integrity  to   environmental
changes which are out of human control.  Communities which
are  imprisoned by  their pasts usually  disintegrate  and
have no future.

     To   be  people  of  integrity   within   integrative
communities we need to give  and  accept free gifts of the
freedom  to  be  openly  and  honestly  vulnerable  within
intimate  relationships  wherein we can let the truth  out
about our own unique unconventional personal experiences.

     If we do not know,  are not familiar with  and do not
develop  healthy ways to avoid or escape from the  tyranny
of  paradigms  of coercive/dishonest  conformity---we  are
doomed to personal and communal disintegration.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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