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    %BLOCK REFLEXIVE HONESTY LEARN ROLE MODEL LACKS 950907

     There  are  many blocks to learning about how  to  be
reflexively honest/true with/to self and others:

     1.  People who are compulsively objective may  object
to  being  openly and honestly reflexive and/or  will  not
respect   anybody  who  is  being  openly   and   honestly
reflexive.    This makes it difficult if the  compulsively
objective  person  is  a powerful  member  of   a  family,
school, church, work-setting, political setting, etc.

     2.  One's own ideals,  values, goals,  principles and
traditional  desires may  not be  compatible   with  being
reflexively  honest/true with/to self and others;  because
deception, dishonesty, secrecy and misleading behavior are
regarded as essential tools to getting ahead successfully.

     3.  One  may  have no healthy role  models  of  being
openly and honestly reflexive.

     4.  People   who  have  been  openly   and   honestly
reflexive may not have been highly respected and supported
in  ways which  would  encourage  one  to  be  openly  and
honestly reflexive.

     5.  People  who have been secretive  and  deceptively
manipulative may  have been highly respected and supported
in ways  which  encourage  such   disintegrative  behavior
patterns.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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