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   %JACK JILL PARADIGM TRANSCEND FALL LOVE DIALOGUE+950721
   %SCIENCE TECHNOLOGY OBJECTIVE REFLEXIVE LOVE SEX 950721

     Jack and Jill are living within the womb and confines
of  a highly respected paradigm which they are starting to
recognize constrains their freedoms of communication. They
cannot trust those who are most into the paradigm,  and so
are discovering  each other more and more  deeply as being
trustworthy in  honest  communications  which they  cannot
enter into with other participants in the paradigm.

     Jack and Jill are finding that to become and continue
to  be respected participants in their paradigm, they must
thoughtlessly  enter into celebrations of the paradigm and
discover  new  ways  to  celebrate  the  paradigm.    They
find this hard to do as they  discover  more and more ways
in  which  the  paradigm  does violence  to  personal  and
communal  integrity.    They are finding  it  increasingly
difficult  to  show  enthusiasm for the paradigm  and  are
increasingly    suspected of not being faithful enough  to
warrant   respect  and  honor  within  the  fellowship  of
paradigm celebrants.

     The  more  Jack  and  Jill get  to  know  each  other
intimately, the more they become aware of the debilitating
aspects of their paradigm, and the more alienated from the
enthusiastic celebrants  of the paradigm---and so the more
likely  to focus their attention upon each other,   rather
than  upon the celebration of the virtues of the paradigm.
The  dynamics of the process which is designed to  protect
the  paradigm  from  exposure  of  its  limitations--leads
instead  to encouraging some of its  more  perceptive  and
creative participants to  be  together in transcending its
limitations.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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