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 %EASY AVOID BIAS FEAR COERCION VIOLENCE MANIPULATE+941026
 %COLLUSION ADDICT CODEPENDENT SUPPORTERS INTEGRITY+941026
 %OBJECTIVE REFLEXIVE RELATIONSHIP OPEN HONESTY SIN 941026

     In  regards  to  which kinds of relationships  is  it
easier to be personally involved,  to describe; and yet to
avoid: bias, fear, coercion, violence and manipulations---
which are dishonest and disintegrative?

     (1)  Objective relationships?

     (2)  Objective-reflexive relationships?

     (3)  Reflexive relationships?

     It  is  when a relationship reflects back upon  one's
own person,  body,   mind,   soul,   spirit,   competence,
achievements,  acceptability, reputation, appearance,  and
esteem---that issues of vulnerability,  security and self-
defense  are most likely to arise.   In such relationships
it is NOT EASY to be involved with integrity,  to describe
accurately,   to  be honest,   and yet to avoid:     bias,
fear, coercion,  violence and  personal manipulations---of
self and of others.

     When one is trying one's best to be objective and  to
avoid  the risks of bias in reflexive  relationships---one
is likely to  be  dishonest  about  one's  failures  to be
objective  in all regards; e.g.,  in regards to one's self
and  one's own relationships.   Being  honest  about one's
self and one's own relationships entails reflexivity which
cannot be avoided.   Pure objectivity is an illusion which
can be maintained  only through dishonest manipulations of
appearances  by participants in collusive games of  mutual
self deception.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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