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    %SHAME GUILT CONDEMN JUDGE EXCOMMUNICATE BANISH+941013
     %REJECT DISFELLOWSHIP THREATEN PATTERN CONTROL 941013

     When  the following efforts are part of a pattern  of
behavior  designed to control one or more persons  without
dialogue, the efforts are alienative and evil:

     shaming           guilting        condemning

     judging           banishing       excommunicating

     rejecting         threatening     disfellowshipping

     People  come to be who they are with integrity.    If
they  are  not  free to  be and encouraged to be  true  to
themselves and to each other---then they  become  involved
in  many  forms  of  addiction,   dishonesty  and  violent
conflicts  which  they  will not know how to resolve,  and
will not learn how to resolve.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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