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    %HOLY RELATION SELF TOGETHER SAFE CONNECT OTHER 940603

    The  Holy  Spirit  is  present in  holy  relationships
wherein self and other are safe to be together with mutual
vulnerability and security.

    In holy relationships there is  a  balance between  an
emphasis  upon  the  relationship of  being  connected  in
cooperative  ventures,  and an emphasis  upon  maintaining
personal integrity wherein each person is true to self and
other.

    Holy  relationships are not characterized by  terminal
perfection; they are growth processes in which dialogue is
open and  honest among participants who are safe and  feel
safe  to  be   vulnerable    in  honest  ways   which  are
mutual and free of conformity.

    In  holy relationships participants are safe and  feel
safe  to let go of their defensive tool-kits of collusive:
deceptions, dishonesties,  lies, manipulations, coercions,
violence,   guns,  bombs,  bombers,  missiles,  armies and
security councils.

    Holy relationships are lead by Love through  the  Holy
Spirit, not by fear through the counsels of anxiety.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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