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   %FALLING IN LOVE GRACE ORIGINAL SIN SEX INTIMATE+940515
            %CONFORMITY CONTROL LOVE RESPONSIBILITY 940515

     Manipulative  people who are playing collusive  games
of mutual self deception are often confused.  They  cannot
tell  the  difference  between falling  from  grace,   and
falling  in love through the motivations and  guidance  of
the non-legalistic Holy  Spirit.    They cannot talk about
the difference, because they cannot  see  the  difference.
They are blind because they are blinded by their collusive
games of mutual self deception.   They see perfection as a
matter  of  proper control,  rather than a matter  of  the
heart where the laws of love are written on the  heart  by
the  Holy  Spirit  in  the  Presence  of  God.   They  see
faithfulness   as  conformity  to  external  demands   and
expectations; rather than as unique  and  honest responses
to  the internal promptings  of  God's  Love.    They  see
responsibility in terms  of conformity,   rather  than  in
terms   of   open  and   honest   responses   in   healthy
relationships of intimate sharing.

     Manipulative  people who are playing collusive  games
of mutual self deception have a compulsive need to confuse
the difference between falling from grace,  and falling in
love  through  the motivations and guidance  of  the  non-
legalistic  Holy  Spirit.    They have fallen  from  grace
because  they  refuse  to fall in love  according  to  the
motivations and guidance of the non-legalistic Holy Spirit
which leads people in the ways of truth,   love, power and
justice---rather than in the collusive ways of addicts and
their supportive codependents who are attempting  to be in
control.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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