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   %LEAD PREFERENCES YES BLESS ENJOY ACHIEVE GENTLE+940504
 %COERCE HUMILITY ARROGANCE FORGIVE CONDEMN INCLUDE+940504
%APPRECIATE PERFECT SIMPLE HONEST SOPHISTICATE HOPE+940504
%RELAX CONTENTION RECONCILE CONFLICT PEACE LOVE JOY 940504

     We are lead by and lead each other by the preferences
which we show.  It is wise therefore to say yes to, bless,
hope-for and enjoy:

     GENTLENESS        rather than    COERCION

     HUMILITY          rather than   ARROGANCE

     FORGIVENESS       rather than   CONDEMNATION

     INCLUSION         rather than   EXCLUSION

     APPRECIATION      rather than   PERFECTION

     SIMPLE HONESTY    rather than   SOPHISTICATION

     RELAXATION        rather than   CONTENTION

     RECONCILIATION    rather than   CONFLICT

     OPENNESS          rather than   CLEVERNESS

     FRIENDSHIP        rather than   FORMALITY

     RESPONSIVENESS    rather than   PROPRIETY

     JOY               rather than   SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS

     PLEASURE          rather than   SUPERIORITY

     AUTHENTICITY      rather than   SUPERIORITY

     INTEGRITIES       rather than   DICHOTOMIES

     INTEGRATION       rather than   ANALYSIS

     AUTHENTICITY      rather than   CONFORMITY

     TRUTHFULNESS      rather than   PROPRIETY

     SECURITY          rather than   INVULNERABILITY

     RESPONSIVENESS    rather than   DEFENSIVENESS

     MEEKNESS          rather than   CERTAINTY

     By  keeping  in  mind  the  fruits  of  showing  wise
preferences  we  can  bless our lives  together  in  love,
rather than condemn ourselves and  each  other to lives of
strife and disintegration.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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