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  %RETURN TO TRUE REFLEXIVE LOVE PERSONAL INTEGRITY+940418
    %COLLUSIVE ADDICTIVE GAME MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION+940418
 %SHARE TABOO SELF TOUCH INTIMATE SEX LOVE PAIN JOY+940418
  %SEEK FIND ENJOY ACKNOWLEDGE SHARE CONFLICT OTHER 940418

     Often   within   collusive   communities    reflexive
knowledge becomes taboo;  forbidden knowledge.   When some
forms   of  reflexive  knowledge  becomes  taboo;    i.e.,
forbidden     knowledge,     then   the  members  of   the
collusive community need to seek to learn how to:

1.   Reflect  upon their own true experiences to integrate
such   taboo   knowledge  into  their  own  whole;   being
themselves---true to themselves and to each other,

    2.  Share with intimate others such taboo knowledge in
the process of integrating it into their  own  whole being
true to themselves---and true to each other,

    3.  Share  with  yet others that  they  have  together
integrated  such taboo  knowledge  into their whole  being
true to themselves---and true to each other.

    4.  Celebrate  with  yet others that the  others  have
also learned  how  to be true to themselves---and true  to
each other;   accepting  each other in the true  knowledge
that   together  they  have  transcended  their   formerly
collusive games of mutual self deception.

    When  we  do  not  seek  reflexive  knowledge  out  of
collusive  fear---then  we  rarely  encounter,  recognize,
acknowledge, apprehend,  articulate,  clarify or share our
reflexive  knowledge with each other in being true to self
and  others.   We become ignorant and out  of  touch  with
ourselves,    and  out of touch with each other;   and  so
rarely touch ourselves or each other.

    When reflexive knowledge has become taboo---then it is
essential  to  our  personal  and communal  integrity   to
return  to  lives of love in learning how  to   encounter,
recognize, acknowledge, apprehend, articulate, clarify and
share  our reflexive knowledge with each  other  in  being
true  to  self and others.   In the face of our  collusive
taboos which were designed to  repress our true  reflexive
knowledge---we  cannot meaningfully know ourselves or each
other in  the absence of seeking for integrity and honesty
in being true to ourselves and to each other, as whole and
healthy expressions of our creator Love.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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