This is http://www.essayz.com/a9403271.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %COMMUNAL HEALTH SICK ADDICTION INTEGRITY LOVE 940327 The level of communal integrity/health or of sickness/addiction of a person/society is indicated by what is accepted as normal or rejected as abnormal: Is alienation accepted as normal---and true intimacy regarded as reasonable grounds for suspicions of impropriety? Is it regarded as more reasonable to be suspicious---or more reasonable to be trusting? Are openness and honesty rejected as non-conformal threats to respected collusions---and demonstrations of deceptive skills as signs of respectable conformity to the rules of collusive games of mutual self deception? Is true creativity regarded as fearful---and dull conformity as worthy of respect? Are people who preach certainty without doubt respected---while people who acknowledge and describe complex relationships are not respected? Is defensiveness regarded as a way to achieve security---or as a sign of the existence of insecurity? Is vulnerability regarded as a precondition to true security---or as a sign of insecurity? (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================