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     People   who  are compulsively concerned with  issues
of control are not free to let themselves or others enjoy:

     SELF        OTHERS           LOVE        SEX

     INTIMACY    RELAXATION       PRAYER      MEDITATION

     REST        ACCEPTANCE

     Such  enjoyment  is regarded as appropriate only as a
reward for conformity and is to be permitted only when one
granted  the   permission by  an  appropriate   authority.
Liberation   from  this  restriction  is
unthinkable,   is not discussible,    and consideration of
the    possibility   of such liberation is strictly
forbidden.

     The prohibitions  of enjoyment which are  imposed  by
people  who  are compulsively preoccupied with  issues  of
control  lead to much resentment,  frustration,  anger and
rebellion---all  of  which  are pointed to  by  the would-
be controllers as the justification for the imposition  of
the  "required"   controls.     Their logic  is  circular,
dishonest and perverse.   They occasion much of that which
they  say  they are working to eliminate---but cannot  see
why   or  how they occasion many  of  the  evil/alienative
relationships which they preach against.

     These considerations are relevant when evaluating how
integrative   are   the   ideals,    values,    attitudes,
assumptions, beliefs, convictions, doctrines and paradigms
of leaders within:

religions   schools      colleges      universities

families    businesses   politics      legislatures

congresses  professions  corporations  administrations

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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