This is http://www.essayz.com/a9403111.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %FEAR LOSS TRUST CONTROL SELF OTHER COMMUNITY POWER+940311 %KNOWLEDGE SEX INTIMACY EMOTION FUTURE CONSEQUENCE+940311 %FAIL REJECT ACCEPT REWARD PUNISH GOD LOVE DEVIL+940311 %BLOCK INHIBIT REPRESS IMPRISON RESTRAIN PROHIBIT 940311 Many forms of integration and integrity are blocked by our fears---fears of loss of trusted control by self, others, communities, and transcendent powers. We fear loss of control over: self others communities perceptions insights risks knowledge emotions futures sex consequences understanding intimacy failures rejections acceptance We fear loss of our apparent ability to make reliable risk assessments in reflexive situations; seeking in reflexive situations the high level of apparent risk assessment which seems to characterize objective situations. We fear not being accepted and/or being rejected for being involved in and/or responsible for the above kinds of losses. We fear the loss of our apparent ability to engage in reliable risk assessment in reflexive situations---and so the loss of the power to control all that we dysfunctionally feel we can and should control; e.g., self others appearances acceptance rejection emotions perceptions knowledge intimacies sexuality creativity reflections responses dialogue listening talking (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================