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 %DESCRIBE CAUSE EFFECT CONSEQUENCE DECISION ACTION+940224
 %ALIENATE JUDGEMENT REJECT PERSON DEVIL GOOD WRONG 940224

There is a great difference between (1)  rejecting  people
in an alienative  manner  because  in  terms  of conformal
standards  they are not "good"  enough to satisfy the self
righteous  judge---and  (2) describing the dynamic  way in
which  cause-effect relationships play themselves  out  in
natural  ways  which  lead  to  the tragic consequences of
people's alienative decisions and actions.

    The ALIENATIVE WAY focuses upon grounds for  rejecting
specific  people in alienative ways,  and upon grounds for
RESPECTING the self righteous judges  who engaged in  such
judgmental  behaviors which  undermine both  personal  and
communal integrity.

    The INTEGRATIVE WAY focuses upon understanding  people
in  integrative ways,  and upon charitable ways to promote
both   personal  and  communal   integrity   by   honestly
describing  the ways  in which  various kinds of decisions
and   actions  undermine  both   personal   and   communal
integrity.

    The  ALIENATIVE  WAY  focuses upon  persons  who  have
already  been  rejected  in a disintegrative  drama,   and
blames,   shames and   guilts  them  for their progressive
alienation.

    The  INTEGRATIVE WAY focuses upon patterns of behavior
which   are  alienative---regardless  of  who  the  actors
involved  in  them  may be;  and points  the  way  towards
reconciliation, healing and health.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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