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   %PERVERSE LOGIC REASON INTELLIGENCE CRITIC JUDGE+940218
    %COLLUDE ADDICT CODEPEND LACK ABSENCE MISS FAIL 940218

     There is a perverse logic, reason and intelligence in
the pattern of alienative injunctions and judgements which
are  used  by  collusive  addicts   and   their supportive
codependents---to  manipulate  people  with   non-physical
violence.    They  lack  honesty,   openness,  gentleness,
consideration, sensitivity,  clarity, affection,  balance,
joy, health,  tolerance, forgiveness,  understanding,  and
wisdom.   Their manipulative  strategy  must not encourage
people  to recognize what is  lacking in their lives;  for
people who can see  what  is lacking will  see through the
strategy.    Thus  collusive addicts and their  supportive
codependents focus attention upon what  other people  have
done, are doing, or might do; and inhibit other people who
might  recognize what the collusive addicts have not done,
are not doing or might neglect to do.

     To  deal wisely with the perverse logic,  reason  and
intelligence  of collusive addicts  and  their  supportive
codependents  ---  we  need  to seek to recognize what  is
lacking in their lives, and in the lives of   the   people
whom they dominate in violently manipulative ways.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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